Your truth will lead you to the life you desire.

Truth is not easy to handle. Truth hurts. Most people would rather live their entire life inside a comforting lie than face one moment of truth.

But the reality is this:

the truth we need the most is often the one nobody can tell us, because no one was there when we were traumatised.

Our trauma had no witnesses.

So unless you meet an exceptional therapist or a truly wise mentor, you are doomed to live like someone with an undiagnosed disease the symptoms but without knowing why. And you will end up believing YOU are the problem.

Tatoo this on your heart: “it’s not my fault”.

The truth about who we are is like the dark side of the moon: you will never see it unless you’re willing to step into the darkness.

You struggle with sleep. You meet monsters in your nightmares. I know exactly how terrifying that is.

But it’s a sign, a message.

It means you need to face your truth, accept it, live with it, and give yourself a real chance to be happy, because you deserve it.

The truth about us always begins in childhood.

Were your parents good parents?

Or did they traumatise you?

How can you know?

It’s simple:

look at the fruits of the family tree.

Look at your life now.

How you feel around them.

How they treat you.

What you became despite them.

There are mistakes parents make that can be forgiven, especially if they acknowledge them.

But there are things you should never forgive, because forgiving them would mean betraying yourself, and the first rule of becoming powerful is:

never betray yourself.

So the truth you’re looking for is hidden in your childhood and in your family.

If everything had been fine, you wouldn’t be searching for answers.

You would already be living your best life, travelling the world, making money, fulfilling your potential.

Only people who are suffering,

people trapped in toxic relationships,

people who cannot make good decisions,

people who live in chronic emotional pain,

seek the truth.

Because pain is the symptom of a deeper wound.

Those who hurt others hide their pain in addictions, violence, or denial.

But you are here.

You’re looking for answers.

And that alone means you are already breaking the cycle.

Why trauma affects your success

If you can’t evolve, progress, or succeed

in your career, relationships, health, money, or social life

it’s because your subconscious is still operating from trauma.

Money issues especially are rooted in trauma.

Money represents power, safety, and self-care.

If you sabotage your finances, it’s because on a subconscious level you were programmed to believe:

“I am not worth anything.”

Facing the truth about your childhood is the first key to breaking this pattern.

Once you see your parents clearly for who they are,

you’ll finally be able to see everyone else clearly too, including the people hurting you today.

And you will cut them out of your life.

And then?

Once you heal,

you will attract people who can love you.

But most importantly,

you will finally love yourself.

And from that place… you will be able to create the life you deserve,

a life that is authentic, powerful, peaceful, and truly yours.

Don’t be ashamed about your situations.

Whatever your situation may be, you must never feel ashamed of yourself. We are born into a context that has already been predetermined. You do not choose your body, your country, your year of birth, your Era, your family, your social status, or your lineage. You cannot choose any of this. What you are given is what you must face. You must walk through it, and reborn a second time.

Everything that has happened to you until now may simply be the effect of a cause for which you are not responsible. This is why you must never feel ashamed if you come from a difficult family. You must not feel ashamed of your origins, or of having no money in your pockets while you struggle to build stability. You must not feel ashamed if you are not yet who you want to be, or who society wants you to become so that you can be classified as belonging to a certain social level. These are all illusions. Mental and social constructions that imprison unaware people, leaving them to live in a vegetative, zombified state, moving forward out of inertia rather than true will.

When you regain your awareness, you understand that the real value of a person lies in who they are inside: their soul, their way of being, their principles, their values, their inner love and strength. That is the real treasure. And that is why you must never be ashamed of being born in a disadvantage, because what truly makes the difference is your courage to rebuild yourself on your own.

Use your pain as your engine, as your motivation. Act, move forward even if you feel negative emotions like shame or fear. Those emotions may be more familiar to you than positive ones. The only way to move from a mind conditioned by past trauma to a healed and free mind is through courage. Only courage can heal you.

So even if you are afraid or ashamed, take a deep breath and do what you know you must do: find a temporary job to become independent, work on a project in parallel, eat better, cut toxic relationships with friends, partners, relatives, family members, parents, exercise regularly, sleep better, reduce your time on social media and use it more intentionally, choose something you like and improve until you become excellent at it.

You already know what you need to do. Do it.

No one has the right to humiliate you or to push you away from what you need to accomplish, and anyone who tries does not truly care about you. Put aside the foolish ego born from fear and open your mind and heart to possibility.

If you do not have children or animals depending on you, you have no idea how lucky you are. You can go anywhere. You have all the time in the world to invest in what will make you exceptionally successful. Use your time to become who you want to become. No more excuses. No more crying. No more postponing your life.

You are the master of your life. You are the one living within yourself, no one else.

So why should you feel ashamed of life’s adversities? Out there, no one has a perfect life, especially those who try hardest to appear as if they do. Do not let appearances deceive you. The truth is more valuable than anything else in the world because it makes you free and untouchable.

Circumstances are never shameful when we face them with dignity.

Change your Life right Now

If you feel the need to change your life, it’s because right now something fundamental is missing, something you need in order to feel good, to feel happy the way you feel when you have the tools and you feel free to do what you desire. You need to take back control and be the main character of your own life, being able to live your life without being conditioned or controlled by the world, by others, or by circumstances.

So, if at this moment you feel the need to change your life, it’s because some fundamental pillars are missing.

And what are these pillars?

The first pillar is financial freedom.

Financial freedom means that you not only have an income that allows you to live and cover your basic needs, but also gives you space for everything that is not “basic”: higher pleasures, experiences, things that make you feel good.

Obviously, if you earn very little, if you have loans, if you struggle to reach the end of the month, you do not have financial freedom.

If you are studying and depend on your parents, you do not have financial freedom.

If you are not working and you are with a man (or woman) who financially supports you, you do not have financial freedom.

You have financial freedom when you, and only you, depend financially on yourself.

A small salary is not enough: you must earn enough to exit the hamster wheel and become financially free.

But financial freedom alone is not enough. You also need financial knowledge: you must know how to protect your money, how to use it to create more money, how to optimize your investments.

There is no real financial freedom without financial understanding.

The most important thing is not how you earn money, because you can eventually earn money, but how you spend it, how you protect it, how you avoid wasting it.

If you earn 2000 euros and the moment they enter your account you feel the urge to spend them on unnecessary things, then you do not know how to prioritize what is necessary over momentary impulses. And this is the reason why you are not wealthy.

This is why this first pillar, financial freedom, is absolutely fundamental.

When you are financially stable, you can solve problems; your choices come from what you want, not from what you are forced to do. You can move, act, choose. Without money, you can’t act.

But freedom without responsibility is just recklessness.

So, besides having financial stability, you must also know how to manage your money. And money management is deeply connected to your inner world: your awareness, your values, your ability to prioritize, your confidence.

When your values are confused or compromised by trauma, your priorities collapse. Everything becomes chaotic. Impulsivity takes over.

And you must understand: it is not your fault. But you must work on this.

So we need financial freedom: this is the first pillar.

Then we need inner awareness and integrity: this is the second pillar.

This is what allows you to protect what you have, and to protect yourself. The third pillar is action and self-elevation. Now that you have money and knowledge, you must act. The third pillar is about building yourself: working on your body, your health, your communication, the way you move in the world. Think of how many beautiful, wealthy people lose all their charm the moment they speak. The way they move, talk, interact… It changes everything.

I started working on this myself: observing my voice, my gestures, the movements of my lips, my hands, my posture. You have no idea how powerful this is.

This third pillar includes everything that is not a basic need but nourishes your soul: relationships, friendships, connections, your passions, your work.

And here is the paradox: the first pillar depends on the third, but the third depends on the first. It’s a loop. Your family should transmit at least two pillars: – economic stability (first pillar) – inner integrity (second pillar). When you inherit these two, you are free to build the third. The real struggle is for those who inherit neither.

I was one of those.

I only had the third pillar, dreams, passions, creativity, but no financial freedom and no inner integrity. I lost money, friendships, everything. Now that I understand this, I want to transmit it. Because many adults who “made it” never tell the truth: out of egoism, out of fear of losing their privilege.

What I am saying here, I would say to the 15-year-old me. If I had known my value, I wouldn’t have needed anything. Today we have tools to build ourselves. Internet is a public square: if you have a talent, if you know how to do something, you can show it and build a future. It is much easier to overcome poverty when you understand this. Social media are not “bad”: it depends on who uses them. And no, the world is not saturated: the world always needs something new. The second pillar, your inner integrity, is the foundation. Because when you have integrity, you are not afraid. And when you are not afraid, you can build everything.